
From the Desk of Attorney Omar Zambrano: Helping 10,000 Families Become Debt-Free in 2025
When it comes to homeownership, one of the biggest financial decisions people make is determining how much of their income should go toward their mortgage. Financial experts have long recommended keeping mortgage payments within 20-30% of your net income. But is that advice still realistic in today’s housing market, where home prices are skyrocketing, interest rates are volatile, and costs of living vary drastically across regions?
To get a clearer picture, I analyzed data from a Reddit thread in the r/FirstTimeHomeBuyer community. But I didn’t stop there. We conducted a survey of 500 homeowners across the U.S. to understand how much people are actually spending on their mortgages. The results were eye-opening and shocking and they reveal a lot about the current state of homeownership in America.
How Much Are People Really Paying on Their Mortgages?
After interviewing 500 people, here’s how mortgage payments break down as a percentage of net income:
Under 20% – 70 people
20-30% – 150 people
30-40% – 120 people
40-50% – 60 people
50-60% – 90 people
Over 60% – 10 people
Key Insights: What the Numbers Reveal
Traditional Advice is Outdated for Many: While 220 respondents are keeping their mortgage payments within the traditionally recommended 30% limit, a staggering 280 people are paying more than 30% of their net income toward housing. This indicates a shift in the affordability landscape—one where many are forced to stretch their budgets just to own a home.
High Earners Are Comfortable Spending More: Those who spend 40-60% of their income on housing tend to be higher earners who have already met other financial goals, like retirement savings, debt freedom, or investments. For them, homeownership is both a lifestyle choice and a long-term investment.
Regional Differences Play a Huge Role: A $100,000 salary stretches differently depending on where you live. In California, that might barely cover a modest mortgage, while in South Dakota, it could mean a spacious home with plenty of disposable income left over. Geography matters more than ever.
Why Are People Spending More Than 30% on Their Mortgages?
Rising Home Prices and Interest Rates: The housing market has seen unprecedented growth in the last few years. In many cities, home prices have outpaced wage growth, forcing buyers to allocate a larger portion of their income to mortgage payments. Add rising interest rates into the mix, and monthly payments become even harder to manage.
Desire for Stability and Ownership: Many respondents emphasized that owning a home provided a sense of security and stability that renting simply couldn’t offer. For some, it was worth spending more to have control over their living situation, even if it meant tightening their budgets elsewhere.
Lack of Affordable Rental Options: In some regions, rental prices are nearly as high as mortgage payments. Faced with the choice between high rent and homeownership, many chose the latter, even if it meant stretching their finances.
Real Stories from Homebuyers: The Human Side of the Data
40% of Net Income: “We were paying $3,000/month in rent, so jumping to a $5,000 mortgage didn’t feel like a huge leap. After all expenses, we still have about $2,300 left over. We’re focusing on paying off our car loan quickly and adding extra to our mortgage principal in the early years.”
55% of Net Income: “It sounds crazy, but I’ve paid off all my student loans and credit cards. I have a solid emergency fund, and I’m contributing to my retirement. The house was a splurge, but I’m comfortable with the payments because everything else is in order.”
Over 60% of Net Income: “I know I’m overextended, but it was either buy now or be priced out forever. The market here is insane. I’m hoping to refinance in a couple of years when rates drop, but for now, it’s tight.”
The Emotional Side of Homeownership: Why People Prefer Owning Over Renting
A consistent theme across the responses was the emotional and psychological value of owning a home:
Stability and Control: Homeowners expressed relief at having a permanent place to live. After years of moving due to rent increases or landlord decisions, they finally had a space that was theirs.
Building Equity: Many respondents saw homeownership as a way to build wealth over time. Even if monthly payments were high, they preferred investing in their own property rather than paying rent to a landlord.
Freedom from Landlords: Landlord fatigue was a common complaint. From rent hikes to neglected maintenance, many renters felt frustrated by the lack of control over their living conditions.
Is Spending Over 40% of Your Income on a Mortgage a Good Idea?
It depends. Here are some factors to consider:
Do You Have an Emergency Fund? If you’re allocating a large portion of your income to a mortgage, ensure you have savings to cover unexpected expenses like medical bills, car repairs, or even job loss.
Are You Debt-Free or Close to It? High mortgage payments can be more manageable if you’ve eliminated credit card debt, student loans, and other financial obligations.
What’s Your Lifestyle Like? Are you willing to cut back on luxuries, travel, or entertainment to afford your home? Make sure your lifestyle aligns with your financial commitments.
The Dangers of Overextending: What Could Go Wrong?
While homeownership is often seen as an investment, overextending financially can lead to serious consequences:
Living Paycheck to Paycheck: High mortgage payments leave little room for other expenses, creating financial stress and limiting your ability to save for emergencies.
Increased Debt: If you can’t cover unexpected costs, you may rely on credit cards or loans, digging yourself deeper into debt.
Limited Financial Flexibility: High mortgage payments can restrict your ability to invest, travel, or take advantage of new opportunities.
Smart Financial Strategies for Homebuyers
If you’re considering buying a home, here are some strategies to protect your finances:
Stick to the 28/36 Rule: Financial experts recommend that your housing costs should not exceed 28% of your gross income, and your total debt payments shouldn’t exceed 36%.
Account for All Expenses: Your mortgage isn’t just the principal and interest. Remember to factor in property taxes, homeowners insurance, HOA fees, and maintenance costs.
Consider Future Income: Are you expecting a promotion, career change, or additional income streams? If so, stretching your budget might make sense.
Final Thoughts from Attorney Omar Zambrano
Buying a home is one of the biggest financial decisions you'll ever make. Whether you’re spending 20% or 50% of your income on a mortgage, the key is to ensure it aligns with your financial goals and lifestyle.
If you’re overwhelmed by debt or unsure how to manage your finances, we’re here to help.
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Your Turn: How Much of Your Income Goes to Your Mortgage?
We’d love to hear from you! How much of your income goes to your mortgage? Are you comfortable with that percentage, or do you wish you had spent more—or less? Share your thoughts in the comments!
Attorney Omar Zambrano
Helping 10,000 Families Achieve Debt-Free Futures in 2025.
This is solely my opinion and should not be considered legal advice.
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